Is "hell of a" positive or negative?
I find it a very curious thing that the phrase "hell of a" seems to be suitable to describe both good and bad things.
e.g.
It was a great party. We had a hell of a time.
vs
We sold the house eventually. But we had a hell of a time.
I certainly hear it more commonly used as in the first instance, but I imagine that this is a regional thing. But I wonder which sense came first. What is the etymology of the phrase?
And, with this in mind, how should I interpret a sentence with very little context?
e.g.
We had a hell of a time when we visited my parents over Christmas.
The phrase "a hell of a time" contains two idioms. "A hell of" and "a time".
As other answers have said "a hell of" just emphasises the strength of something.
That man has a hell of a cheek
She has a hell of a talent
He has a hell of a big nose
... and so on.
"A time" often refers to a period that was interesting in some unspecified way, especially when preceded with a strengthening adjective.
He had quite a time during his illness
What a time we had on holiday!
Put them together, and you have:
We had a hell of a time.
There is nothing in the sentence to say whether they had a hell of a good time, a hell of an exciting time, a hell of a bad time, a hell of a dreary time. All of that is to be inferred from context.
And perhaps the speaker doesn't want you to know the truth.
Related: if you say "I had a hellish time", that's always bad.
It refers to the extremity of goodness or badness.