What is the word for a woman dominating in social family situations?

What word describes a woman who takes lead over her husband and/or children in social family situations? Talks lively, entertains people around and at the same time does not allow her husband to speak by answering first and overwhelming him with her vigour.

Edit: As some users rightfully noticed in comments I did not ask for a person who irritates everyone around with her attitude. To this, other users raised concern the question is ambiguous and unclear because of that. I see no contradiction between being a vigorous, entertaining, and pleasant woman to everyone around, and at the same shutting off her spouse and other members of the family.

^{I don't even see why should I and how can I clarify that point other than what I already wrote.
Nevertheless all answers provide valuable insight even if they are slightly off the original question.}

Matriarch: A matriarch is a woman who is the mother and head of a family.

I often use the phrase “queen bee”:

1. (Animals) the fertile female bee in a hive
2. a woman in a position of dominance or ascendancy over her peers or associates

(from the Free Dictionary).