Show that the three medians of a triangle are concurrent at a point

Well, since you've asked for criticism, here some is! (Both positive and negative).

Firstly, nice try. It seems you've got something of the right idea. Intuitively it does indeed seem that if you do as you say and "contract" the triangle down to a point, the corners trace the medians, and eventually meet at a single point, or something like that.

Now time for the bad news; unfortunately, intuition does not a mathematical proof make. The problem with your proof is that you don't actually define anything that you've said. What does it mean to "Slowly scale (contract) the triangle down to a point."? Intuitively we do understand, but mathematically, we do not.

You follow this up by asserting something about the corners tracing the three medians of the triangle. This is unfortunately tantamount to stating what you're trying to prove - and is a no no!

I won't provide you with a proof, that would ruin all your fun, but the main thing is to ask yourself "If I say this to somebody, do they have any other choice than to agree with me?". The answer to that question, for a proper proof, is no. You can not disagree with a proof. However, in your example above, almost anyone could, because it's not quite watertight enough. Hope this helps :-)

The midpoints of the three sides of a triangle form another triangle similar to the original but scaled by one half, rotated a half revolution, and its medians are half of the medians of the original triangle. Perform the operation again and the new triangle is scaled by one fourth and has the same orientation as the original, and its medians are one fourth of the medians of the original triangle. Iterating this process indefinitely shrinks the triangle down to just one point, the centroid, which is common to all of the medians.

I think you had a valid intuition, and that is important, but the precise details needed some work. I hope my version helps.

Proof: Slowly scale (contract) the triangle down to a point. The three corners of the triangle trace the three medians of the triangle. Therefore, the three medians intersect at a point.

Please don't take this harshly -- I think it's a very nice idea. But others have not been honest enough: the idea of this proof is not correct. I think it cleverly hides this, and seems to be possibly correct, but if you try to write down the details, you will not get anywhere with it.

The main problem is that you say to "Slowly scale (contract) the triangle down to a point." But what point? Scaling a triangle requires that you pick a point to scale it down to, and move the vertices towards that point at a uniform rate.

The only reasonable answer to "what point" is "scale it down to the centroid of the triangle." But then, the proof is circular: in order to give the scaling argument, you already have to know that the three lines all go through the centroid.

Q: Can't I just say to scale down the figure, and not specify what point I'm scaling it down to?

You could, but then it would not be clear what it means for the three corners of the triangle to "trace out" lines during this scaling. In order for them to trace out lines, they must move towards a specified point.

Q: OK. Then can I just pick an arbitrary point to scale it down to?

If you did this, then the lines traced out by the three corners of the triangle would be arbitrary lines, and not necessarily the medians of the triangle.

Q: What if I define the centroid first (say, the average of the three vertices' coordinates), and then scale down to that point?

This will work, but the next step (after defining the centroid) will be to prove that all three medians go through the centroid. And once you have proven that, the scaling argument becomes unnecessary, because you already know that the three medians intersect in a point. The proof is already done.

Q: How could I have seen, before going into this detail, that this proof would not work?

The best "heuristic" reason is that it is not clear, from reading the proof, what facts it uses about the median lines. It seems like the proof could be understood by someone who does not even know what a "median" is. Thus, the proof must be wrong.

In a rigorous way, you may prove that

In a triangle $ABC$, the median through $A$ is the locus of points $P$ such that $[PAB]=[PAC]$.

Let $X$ be the intersection between the median $m_A$ through $A$ and the median $m_B$ through $B$.
Since $X\in m_A$, $[XCA]=[XAC]=[XAB]=[XBA]$.
Since $X\in m_B$, $[XBA]=[XBC]=[XCB]$. By transitivity of $=$, $[XCA]=[XCB]$.
It follows that $X\in m_C$, hence the medians of a triangle are always concurrent.

By describing axis, heights and angle bisectors as loci you may easily devise similar proofs for the existence and unicity of the circumcenter, orthocenter and incenter. Here it is an extended implementation of this trick:

1. The perpendicular bisector of $AB$ is the locus of points $P$ such that $PA=PB$;
2. The angle bisector(s) of $\widehat{BAC}$ is (are) the locus of points $P$ such that $d(P,AB)=d(P,AC)$;
3. The altitude through $A$ is the locus of points $P$ such that $PB^2-PC^2=AB^2-AC^2$, or the radical axis of the circles having diameters $AB,AC$.

^{Here $[PQR]$ stands for the area of $PQR$ and $d$ for the Euclidean distance, of course.}

You are using the conclusion in your demonstration: you assume that the three lines meet at one point (when you "contract the triangle in a single point"). To see what I mean, imagine that the medians intersection forms a triangle instead of one point:

Then your argument won't work. You would have to prove first that two of the medians meet and that the third one meets in exactly same point.