Word that describes a word which isn't normally used in an everyday conversation
Solution 1:
It's possible you just want
esoteric
adjective
intended for or likely to be understood by only a small number of people with a specialized knowledge or interest. [Google D]
Solution 2:
I'm guessing rare, obscure, and arcane are not rare, obscure, or arcane enough for you, so how about
recondite: little known; abstruse.
or
recherché: rare, exotic, or obscure.
Which definition has the precise example, in the dictionary, of:
"a few linguistic terms are perhaps a bit recherché for the average readership"
If you want to say a rare word belongs to a vocabulary used only in technical contexts or by specific subcultures, you could say it is jargon, lingo, or argot.
Coming back to the need for a noun, you could always say:
My, that is a lyrical locution