Converting a Word document to LaTeX format
Solution 1:
This is the first result from google and seems to offer the features you want:
http://www.grindeq.com/
Solution 2:
Late to this party but have you tried looking at the stackoverflow question? If you are a complete newbie to latex it looks like wordtolatex and gaussnewton seem best choices.
Solution 3:
I don't know about equations, but there are several rtf to LaTeX converters that should also handle the graphs.
Be aware that LaTeX has a pretty steep learning curve, especially if you want to control the layout as much as you need to for a book. Its great once you have the knowledge, but it may be a struggle to get there. Does your publisher really expect you to do all of the layout? I thought that most of them did the layout themselves using some fairly expensive software packages.