Is there a way to programmatically tell if particular block of memory was not freed by FastMM?
Even if such handler exist, it would be nearly useless, as everything, including DB would be shut down at the time when FastMM reports leaks.
So, I suggest you to turn on LogErrorsToFile along with FullDebugMode conditionals in FastMM4Options.inc. This will give you a text file with leaks, which later you can parse and put into DB.