Share media between multiple django(VMs) servers
You should use an object store to save and serve your user uploaded files. django-storages makes the implementation really simple.
If you don’t want to use cloud based AWS S3 or equivalent, you can host your own on-prem S3 compatible object store with minio.
On your current setup I don’t see any easy way to fix where the number of vm s are dynamic depending on load.
If you have deployment automation then maybe try out rsync so that the vm takes care of syncing files with other vms.