Idioms/expression that means something can bring great benefit if used correctly?
Fire is a good friend but a bad master.
The old saying "Fire is a good friend but a bad master" is quite true.
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Fire is a good servant but a bad master [proverb]
Fire is useful when monitored and controlled. Left unchecked, however, it is quite dangerous and destructive.
[Farlex Dictionary of Idioms]
Oxford Reference gives the idiomatic broadening:
Fire is a good servant but a bad master
Something that is benign and useful if well controlled becomes a danger if it is allowed to take over.
And a famous example (in three variants!):
A cautionary statement about statecraft has often been attributed to George Washington. Here are three versions:
Government is like fire, a dangerous servant and a fearful master.
Government, like fire, is a troublesome servant and a terrible master.
A government is like fire, a handy servant, but a dangerous master.
And other variants:
The press, like fire, is an excellent servant, but a terrible master. [James Fenimore Cooper]
Technology is a useful servant but a dangerous master [Christian Lous Lange]
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