Word for caring about the appearance of a matter but not its spirit
The word usually used, at least in Christian theology, is legalistic.
Dictionary.com gives a fitting definition of the noun (the noun and adjective have closely corresponding meanings):
legalism noun
- strict adherence, or the principle of strict adherence, to law or prescription, especially to the letter rather than the spirit.
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Lexico is more incisive in its definition, from a Christian perspective:
legalistic adjective
1 Adhering excessively to law or formula.
- ‘our conciliation process avoids an overly legalistic approach’
- ‘narrow legalistic definitions’
1.1 [Theology] Concerning adherence to moral law rather than to personal religious faith....