Word or expression for the noise in a busy house with kids?
Words like racket and din could lead you to other synonyms. Lexico has
racket²
1 A loud unpleasant noise; a din.
the kids were making a racket
Another suggestion is, from Lexico
hubbub
1 A chaotic din caused by a crowd of people.
1.1 busy, noisy situation.
You could say
Our house is always a hubbub of activity.
Cacophony (Noun): A harsh discordant mixture of sounds.
"a cacophony of deafening alarm bells" Lexico
The word ruckus can be used. Google gives the following definition and provides an example with a child:
a disturbance or commotion.
"a child is raising a ruckus in class"
Clamour (Noun): A loud and confused noise, especially that of people shouting.
Example: From behind the group, a great clamour arose — Lexico
It can also be used as a verb.
Or tumult.
Tumult (noun): A loud, confused noise, especially one caused by a large mass of people — Lexico
Example: a tumult of shouting and screaming broke out.
It's a bit more dramatic, but "pandemonium" (Noun) comes to mind.
"Wild and noisy disorder or confusion; uproar." Lexico