Use of quite and too [duplicate]

First, too does not mean very. It means excessively. It is sometimes interchangeable with very, but it has a connotation of disapproval.

As for your examples, 3. is ungrammatical.

Your 1. and 2. are both grammatical: 1. is colloquial, and 2. rather literary. Some people would use one of these exclusively; some would say 1., but write 2. in a formal context