Asks a question; never responds to answers/comments
Solution 1:
Perhaps drive-by asker or drive-by participant, to convey that he comes in, makes his post/comment/etc, and then continues on his merry way. Related, from @onomatomaniak in comments: ask and run.
In other contexts we call someone who takes but never gives -- for example, communal snacks at work -- a mooch (or moocher) or a parasite. Depending on the specific case I don't see a problem with using those words online. Freeloader also comes to mind, though it is more general.
Edited for question revision: mooch, parasite, and freeloader are all perjorative; the drive-by phrases are probably slightly negative but not as much as those.
Solution 2:
I like nonreciprocal.
re·cip·ro·cal Interchanged, given, or owed to each other
Solution 3:
Distracted. It's possible that a person who was interested enough to ask a question, but didn't follow through with the process of discerning a helpful answer, was distracted by something else. It could be a shiny object, or it could be a sick child. It could be one or more of any number of things.
Solution 4:
I don't think there is a single word that captures what you want to say. These terms come to mind:
unappreciative of the help offered
uninvolved in the learning process
exhibits poor etiquette concerning questions asked
lacks follow-through
is half-hearted (or apathetic) about his questions
Solution 5:
How about deadbeat? In the same way that a deadbeat dad spawns a human life that he does not concern himself to care for, a deadbeat asker could be construed as a person that spawns a discussion that he neglects to contribute to.