Can you use 'miss' instead of 'forget'?
The Oxford English Dictionary includes this usage under miss, v.1 II.5.a, but marks it archaic:
trans. To fail (to do something). With gerund, infinitive (now arch.), or (occasionally in Middle English) that-clause as object.
The construction seems to be alive and well in Indian English, either as a survival of the archaic construction or as an independent innovation; "don't miss to" gets plenty of Google-hits, many of them obviously Indian in origin.
Whether you consider it "usable" will probably depend on whether you're OK with using archaic constructions and/or Indian English. If not — e.g., if you want to sound like a native speaker — then you should avoid it.
Miss doesn't really work as it was used in your question. The only way I can think it could work is if you're referring to a complicated task with multiple sub-tasks.
When returning your laptop please do the following.
- Remove work data
- Uninstall un-approved applications
- Change password
- Mail back to home office
Please don't miss any of the above steps because they are all important.
(although "forget" probably still makes more sense) The way "miss" makes sense is via metaphorical reference to a task where spots could be "missed" such as cleaning a floor "You missed a spot over there" you didn't forget it so much as fail to complete the task because some portion of the task was skipped. Another acceptable usage would be:
Fed Ex shipments must be received by 2PM. Please don't miss that deadline when you drop the laptop off.