PDE - Feynman-Kac vs. finite difference methods
I'm not sure if such a reference exists; this claim is certainly part of well known folklore, but I doubt that it is possible to "prove" this in any interesting amount of generality.
The phenomenon is commonly called the "curse of higher dimensions", which means that the error of deterministic grid methods (I leave the precise definition of "error" unspecified) is asympotically $O(N^d)$ (N = number of grind points in one coordinate, d = dimension). This is not true for "Monte-Carlo methods" that use averages of the simulation of stochastic differential equations instead. But I'm mostly sure that you'll have to specify a concrete problem in order to show that there is a break-even point in 3D, and it will also depend on your definition of error and the involved numerical methods.
It is possible to show that for example "sparse grid methods" can avoid the curse of higher dimensions, at least to some extend in theory, but also in numerical experiments, so that grid methods can outperform Monte-Carlo methods in specific situations in higher dimensions. This relies upon assumptions about the "smootheness" of the function space that is the solution space of the equations at hand.
You could try this review paper for an explanation of this kind of counterexample:
- H.-J. Bungartz and M. Griebel: Sparse grids. Acta Numerica, 13:1-123, 2004.
and this one specifically for parabolic PDE:
- M. Griebel and D. Oeltz. A Sparse Grid Space-Time Discretization Scheme for Parabolic Problems, Computing, 81(1):1-34, 2007.
I think some of the students of Professor Griebel have studied concrete problems and compared grid methods to Monte-Carlo methods with the result that grid methods sometimes outperform Monte-Carlo methods in dimensions greater than 3, but have not found a suitable reference.