Volume applet in the tray has gone. How can I get it back?

When you issue a command similar to the following, do you see indicator-sound-service?

ps ax | grep 'indicator'

In case the package was inadvertently removed, try the following:

Install via the software center

or

sudo apt-get install indicator-sound

Does this work?

sudo apt-get install indicator-sound


in synaptic search for "sound indicator" and make sure it is installed! then you might have to re login.