How can I force unattended-upgrades to run on demand?
You can execute unattended-upgrade with -d option to run it any time you want :)
Open terminal and execute this command:
sudo unattended-upgrade -d
It will start checking for available updates and if found it will upgrade your system.
In addition to this I also want you to go to this site:
https://help.ubuntu.com/18.04/serverguide/automatic-updates.html
May 24, 2018: Changing the URL for18.04 as 12.04 is expired.
Reply if you need any clarification.