Can xbox360 and mobile cross play Minecraft

My friend used an Xbox 360 for Minecraft and I use mobile but since were both bedrock (haters will say it’s not) I kinda thought we could play together:/

Solution 1:

You guys in fact, are not both on the Bedrock edition of Minecraft. Your friend is on the minecraft-legacy-console edition of Minecraft, while you are on the minecraft-bedrock-edition. You can see the difference by going on the main screens. Minecraft Legacy Console edition is discontinued, therefore you cannot play with your friend.

Solution 2:

A simple search for "Can Xbox and Mobile play Minecraft together" on the internet will tell you that Minecraft, indeed, is cross-platform.

All you need to do is invite a friend to your world by selecting the option "Find Cross-Platform Friends" and then enter their Minecraft ID to add them as a friend.

Please do more research before asking a question.