Set permissions for sharing only user through terminal
I solved the probelm by setting the permissions in the following way:
sudo chmod -R +a "user:USER_NAME allow list,search,readattr,readextattr,readsecurity,file_inherit,directory_inherit" PATH_TO_DIRECTORY/
This does the trick of changing the folder permissions so it propagates the users permissions automatically when new files are added. In this example
allow list,search,readattr,readextattr,readsecurity
are copied from the permissions of the sharing only user, and I have added
file_inherit,directory_inherit
in order to allow the files and directories within the original directory to automatically inherit the permissions.