Word for disposable cutlery etc preferably without using "disposable"

Solution 1:

Single-use tableware is an option. It's something you might find at a catered event or anyplace that washing-up facilities aren't available, such as a street fair. It doesn't imply cheap - some of the stuff is quite good. You can also call it recyclable tableware if you are trying to be PC.

Single-use — ODO

adjective Designed to be used once and then disposed of or destroyed
"billions of single-use cups are thrown into landfill sites every year"

Usage examples:

  • http://www.naturaltableware.com/about-natural-tableware/
  • http://www.mrtakeoutbags.com/store/dinnerware.html

Solution 2:

I think OP's edited question makes my answer appear odd. So, check out a better answer by Phil Sweet.

Disposables — ODO

noun An article designed to be thrown away after use
"don’t buy disposables, such as cups and plates"

The specific meaning will be understood from context.

Plasticware — Dictionary

noun 1. Knives, forks, spoons, cups, etc., made of plastic
"a picnic hamper with plasticware for six."

and similarly, paperware, etc.

I don't know of a simpler term than Disposable cutlery — TFD

utensils, as knives, forks, and spoons, used for serving and eating food.

or disposable tableware — M-W

dishes, glasses, knives, forks, etc., that are used for serving and eating food at a table