Why do we say, "keep a stiff upper lip"?
I've never understood the origin of the phrase, "keep a stiff upper lip". Presumably it's something to do with avoiding crying (as it means to remain stoical), but if anything it's the bottom lip that may wobble before one cries; generally the upper lip always stays stiff anyway. So, why do we say this to indicate stoicism?
As reported from the Online Etymology Dictionary, keep a stiff upper lip is attested from 1815.
It is probably referring to the facial mimic, in the same way bite one's lip and curl one's lip do.
The meaning of a stiff upper lip reported by the NOAD is "a quality of uncomplaining stoicism."
Senior managers had to keep a stiff upper lip and remain.
From the Phrase Finder:
Remain resolute and unemotional in the face of adversity, or even tragedy.
This is such a clichéd expression that it is difficult to imagine doing anything else with a stiff upper lip apart from keeping it. It is similar to 'keep a straight face'
Hope that explained why we use it.