'If only youthness may come back a day so I may lament to it the grayness'

If youth knew, if age could, Sigmund Freud

The phrase laments the inexperience and/or lack of wisdom of youth and the lack of energy of old age.

The phrase goes back much further; see The Oxford Dictionary of Proverbs here

Cf. H. Estienne Les Premices (1594) 173

O si la ievnesse scavoit, O si la vieillesse povvoit

translated as here

If when you’re young you only knew, if when you’re older you still could.