Mysterious Characterization of $A_5$ inside $S_5$
Solution 1:
To sketch a partial solution to this we puzzle we can use some group character theory. Below I have included the character tables of $Sym(5)$ and $Alt(5)$. We first observe that the function
$$\chi(g)=|fix(g)|$$
is a group character, and by a well known theorem (Theorem 2.6.1) we see that $\chi(g)=\rho_1(g)+\rho_4(g)$, restricting to $Alt(5)$ we see that $\chi(g)=\phi_1(g)+\phi_4(g)$.
Now fix $\sigma=(12345)$ and pick and conjugacy class representatives in $Alt(5)$:
$\pi_1=id$,
$\pi_2=(12)(34)$,
$\pi_3=\sigma$
and $\pi_4=\sigma^{-1}$.
We have:
$[\sigma,\pi_1]=id$,
$[\sigma,\pi_2]=(12453)$,
$[\sigma,\pi_3]=(134)$,
$[\sigma,\pi_4]=id$
and $[\sigma,\pi_5]=(15432)=\sigma^{-1}$.
Moreover,
$\sigma^2[\sigma,\pi_1]=\sigma^2$,
$\sigma^2[\sigma,\pi_2]=(142)$,
$\sigma^2[\sigma,\pi_3]=(15243)$,
$\sigma^2[\sigma,\pi_4]=\sigma^2$
and $\sigma^2[\sigma,\pi_5]=(12345)=\sigma$.
Now, evaluating the character
$\phi_1([\sigma,\pi_i])+\phi_4([\sigma,\pi_i])+\phi_1(\sigma^2[\sigma,\pi_i])+\phi_4(\sigma^2[\sigma,\pi_i])=\chi([\sigma,\pi_i])+\chi(\sigma^2[\sigma,\pi_i])$
on those conjugacy classes gives either $2$ or $5$, and we're done.
For example, for $\pi_2$ we have
$\chi(\sigma^2[\sigma,\pi_i])=\phi_1([\sigma,\pi_2])+\phi_4([\sigma,\pi_2])+\phi_1(\sigma^2[\sigma,\pi_2])+\phi_4(\sigma^2[\sigma,\pi_2])=\phi_1((12453))+\phi_4((12453))+\phi_1((142))+\phi_4((142))=1-1+1+1=2$.
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I'll include some remarks about why this not a complete solution and what remains to be proven. The key mystery seems to be that to obtain $2$ or $5$ we require the elements $[\sigma,\pi]$ and $\sigma^2[\sigma,\pi]$ to have orders $(1,5)$, $(1,3)$, $(5,1)$, $(3,1)$ or $(2,2)$. Why this happens, I do not know. That being said, the fact that the commutator of two elements of $Alt(5)$ is clearly going to be contained in $Alt(5)$, also multiplying a commutator of $Alt(5)$ elements by an element of $Alt(5)$ will also be in $Alt(5)$.
The character table of $Sym(5)$:
$$ \begin{array}{c|rrrrrrr} \rm class&\rm1&\rm2&\rm2^2&\rm3^1&\rm4^1&\rm5^1&\rm6^1\cr \rm size&1&10&15&20&30&24&20\cr \hline \rho_{1}&1&1&1&1&1&1&1\cr \rho_{2}&1&-1&1&1&-1&1&-1\cr \rho_{3}&4&-2&0&1&0&-1&1\cr \rho_{4}&4&2&0&1&0&-1&-1\cr \rho_{5}&5&1&1&-1&-1&0&1\cr \rho_{6}&5&-1&1&-1&1&0&-1\cr \rho_{7}&6&0&-2&0&0&1&0\cr \end{array} $$
The character table of $Alt(5)$:
$$ \begin{array}{c|rrrrr} \rm class&\rm1&\rm2^2&\rm3^1&\rm5_A&\rm5_B\cr \rm size&1&15&20&12&12\cr \hline \phi_{1}&1&1&1&1&1\cr \phi_{2}&3&-1&0&\frac{1+\sqrt{5}}{2}&\frac{1-\sqrt{5}}{2}\cr \phi_{3}&3&-1&0&\frac{1-\sqrt{5}}{2}&\frac{1+\sqrt{5}}{2}\cr \phi_{4}&4&0&1&-1&-1\cr \phi_{5}&5&1&-1&0&0\cr \end{array} $$