Is there a standard way to benchmark a Windows VM performance from within the guest OS?
I tend to use the same products I use to benchmark physical hardware.
http://www.passmark.com/products/pt.htm
Skip the 3d test of course, but the others can be helpful, especially the disk and networking benchmarks. Make sure you are using the proper network & IO drivers, and make sure all your windows settings are optimized for VM.
For testing the networking, I use iperf and netperf to stress test that.
For testing disk I/O, use sqlio which is another industry standard tool. Run both random and sequential I/O testing with different block sizes.
For the CPU/RAM testing, I can't think of anything for Windows off the top of my head.