Reminding others of one’s favors for them [closed]

What do you call a person who keeps reminding others of one’s favors for them? When you fight with a person who then keeps telling you I did that I did this for you and so on. I want to tell them that it's inappropriate to remind others of the favors you did for them, especially if I appreciate those favors and try my best to return them.


I'd call them a scorekeeper.

A scorekeeper is:

: a person who records the official score in a game or contest

(Merriam Webster)

However, it's used often in interpersonal arguments.

For example, in this Art of Manliness article:

But like all couples, we occasionally have arguments. And a good percentage of them used to be over who was taking care of what, and whether one person wasn’t pulling their weight enough in the relationship.

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Couples who fall into The Tit for Tat Trap base their relationships on strict reciprocity. “I will only do this, if you do that. And if you stop doing what I expect of you, I will stop doing what you expect of me.”

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All of which is to say: when it comes to accurately keeping score in a relationship, we suck.

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At this point you might be thinking to yourself, “Scorekeeping is something douche-y guys do in a relationship. But not me. In my relationships I’m an incredibly generous and giving guy.”

Google 'scorekeeping -app argument' for more examples.