Stop using Mac keyboard Option as a modifier to character
Solution 1:
The alt key on the Macintosh is primarily used for international character keyboard mapping. This is a much more sane and reasonable approach to extended characters than windows alt-numpad tricks. Because of this, it is not typically used alone as a keyboard shortcut key (except with Function keys), although it is used in some shortcuts in conjunction with command and control.
Keyboard remapping can be done with a utility called Ukelele:
http://scripts.sil.org/cms/scripts/page.php?site_id=nrsi&id=ukelele
However, this won't help you, since you are expecting the alt key to act like a shortcut (command/control) key.
There is a free utility that lets you swap around modifier keys, if their placement is unfamiliar to you:
http://doublecommand.sourceforge.net/
Here's the Netbeans article explaining MacOS X keyboard shortcuts, and how to adjust either the Netbeans shortcuts or the Mac OSX shortcuts:
http://netbeans.org/kb/articles/mac.html
EDIT: Solution for button shortcuts in netbeans dialog boxes.
OK, so the Netbeans IDE is a brain-dead cross-platform java application. Ensure you don't have a text field highlighted before using the alt-key button shortcuts. This can be quickly accomplished by hitting tab or shifttab.
Solution 2:
I have a much better solution than creating own custom keyboards: just use the "Unicode Hex Input" input source. It's the regular QWERTY minus all this weird stuff on the ⌥ button.
Not sure which OS version it is available from though. If you have any information about this, feel free to edit it into the answer.
Solution 3:
The question also appears here on StackOverflow https://stackoverflow.com/questions/11876485/how-to-disable-typing-special-characters-when-pressing-option-key-in-mac-os-x
On that question, I found Dan's answer to go to wordherd.com and generate a keyboard map without the [option] key shortcuts to be the quickest and easiest solution. https://stackoverflow.com/a/16019737/266531