Stopping a DOS attack
Solution 1:
You're not just trying to withstand a DoS, you're trying to withstand a DDoS, which is distributed and much more difficult to deal with.
Essentially, you're trying to identify illegitimate traffic and block them. Ideally, you want to null route this traffic (even better get your upstream providers to null route it.)
The first port of call is identification. You need to find some way to identify the traffic that is being sent to your host. Whether it's a common user agent, whether it's the fact that they're not actually using a proper browser (HINT: do they act like proper browsers - i.e. follow 301 redirects), whether all requests flood in at the exact same time or by how many requests each IP is hitting your server per hour.
You cannot block them without identifying them and you need to find some way of doing that.
Those DDoS mitigation tools essentially do the same thing, except in real time and cost a bomb. Half of the time there's false positives or the DDoS is so big it doesn't matter anyways, so be careful where you put your money here if you do decide to invest in one of them either now or in the future.
Remember: 1. IDENTIFY 2. BLOCK. 1 is the hard part.
Solution 2:
You're assuming that this is an intentional DDoS. The first thing to try is changing the IP address. If it's not in fact intentional, then it will stop.
Where would these requests be coming from if it's not intentional? It could be random, or it could be a mistaken target. Unlikely, but worth a try.
Are you sure you're not just getting loads of legitimate traffic? Maybe you've been slashdotted, or something. Try looking at the referrers in the logs.