Becoming a vampire lord and getting bloodcursed arrows after curing Serana

Solution 1:

Late answer, but there are 2 ways to become a vampire lord:

  1. Accept Lord Harkon's gift during the Bloodline quest
  2. Receive it from Serana after Chasing Echoes quest (which in your case you can no longer do unless you reload a previous save)

Source - unofficial Skyrim wiki