Normal but not hermitian nor unitary
Solution 1:
The answer to your (imprecise) question lies in the Spectral theorem for normal matrices: normal matrices are precisely those that are unitarily diagonalizable. Hermitian and unitary matrices are special cases: hermitian matrices are normal with real eigenvalues, while unitary matrices are normal with complex eigenvalues of modulus one.
Therefore to answer your question, you should look for some matrix with complex non-real and non-unitary eigenvalues.
Solution 2:
Hope this matrix can work
$$A = \begin{pmatrix} 1 & 1+i & 1 \\ -1+i & 1 & 1 \\ -1 & -1 & 1\end{pmatrix}$$
$AA' = A'A$ so normal.
$AA' \neq 0$ so not unitary.
$A \neq \bar{A}'$ so not hermitian.