TCP SYN cookies are always turned on when enabled?
Solution 1:
The second source
"this means that options such as selective ACKs and TCP Window Scaling won't work if you turn on SYN Cookies, even if your server isn't currently under attack"
is simply bullshit, until
"TCP: request_sock_TCP: Possible SYN flooding on port 53. Sending cookies. Check SNMP counters"
happens there is nothing disabled.
This is easy provable by comparing your performance with iperf3 and enabling/disabling "net.ipv4.tcp_sack" and "net.ipv4.tcp_window_scaling" while keep "net.ipv4.tcp_syncookies = 1" enabled.
Why do you read random sources instead the official ones? https://www.kernel.org/doc/Documentation/networking/ip-sysctl.txt
tcp_syncookies - BOOLEAN
Only valid when the kernel was compiled with CONFIG_SYN_COOKIES
Send out syncookies when the syn backlog queue of a socket
overflows. This is to prevent against the common 'SYN flood attack'
Default: 1
Note, that syncookies is fallback facility.
It MUST NOT be used to help highly loaded servers to stand
against legal connection rate. If you see SYN flood warnings
in your logs, but investigation shows that they occur
because of overload with legal connections, you should tune
another parameters until this warning disappear.
See: tcp_max_syn_backlog, tcp_synack_retries, tcp_abort_on_overflow.
syncookies seriously violate TCP protocol, do not allow
to use TCP extensions, can result in serious degradation
of some services (f.e. SMTP relaying), visible not by you,
but your clients and relays, contacting you. While you see
SYN flood warnings in logs not being really flooded, your server
is seriously misconfigured.