use exim systemfilter to drop specific incoming and outgoing emails withou bounce message

Solution 1:

You can 'save' it to /dev/null. No additional processing is done after this as Exim treats it to be a Significant Delivery.

if ("$message_body:, $h_to:, $h_reply_to:, $sender_address" contains "example.com") then save /dev/null endif

The manual contains more information

It is probably also worth bringing up RFC 5321

"As discussed in Section 7.8 and Section 7.9 below, dropping mail without notification of the sender is permitted in practice. However, it is extremely dangerous and violates a long tradition and community expectations that mail is either delivered or returned. If silent message-dropping is misused, it could easily undermine confidence in the reliability of the Internet's mail systems. So silent dropping of messages should be considered only in those cases where there is very high confidence that the messages are seriously fraudulent or otherwise inappropriate."