how to merge audio using ffmpeg, not concat
Solution 1:
For helping others, I'm posting the solution I found :
http://www.ffmpeg.org/ffmpeg-filters.html#amix
Mixes multiple audio inputs into a single output.
For example
ffmpeg -i INPUT1 -i INPUT2 -i INPUT3 -filter_complex amix=inputs=3:duration=first:dropout_transition=3 OUTPUT
Above command will mix 3 input audio streams to a single output with the same duration as the first input and a dropout transition time of 3 seconds.