How to specify to MSTSC which session to connect to?
Solution 1:
Use Local Security Policy (or Group Policy if the machine is in a domain) to limit users to a single RDP session.
Open Local/Group Policy.
In Computer Configuration, Administrative Templates, Windows Components, Terminal Services, double-click the Restrict Terminal Services users to a single remote session setting.
Click Enabled, and then click OK.
Note: Replace "Terminal Services" with "Remote Desktop Services" if on a modern version of Windows.
Solution 2:
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If you connect to a remote desktop and it creates a new session instead of connecting to your existing session, do the following:
Run taskmgr
and go to the Users
tab and note the ID number of your previous session.
Run tscon n
where n is the ID number. Your remote desktop session will be immediately switched to the specified session.