What noun do we have that means 'offendableness' or 'offendability' (tendency) or that means 'offendedness' (state)?

Solution 1:

Being thin skinned is to be easily offended. This usage is idiomatic.

Emotionally susceptible to or unable to ignore the verbal attacks or criticisms of others.

As in:

You can't be thin-skinned if you want to be in the entertainment industry.

Solution 2:

Irascible: having or showing a tendency to be easily angered.

Irascibility: The more you 'ave, the less you 'are

Solution 3:

This state could be called touchy:

Tending to take offense with slight cause; oversensitive.