Continuous and bounded variation does not imply absolutely continuous
I know that a continuous function which is a BV may not be absolutely continuous. Is there an example of such a function? I was looking for a BV whose derivative is not Lebesgue integrable but I couldn't find one.
The Devil's staircase function does the trick.
Its derivative is almost surely zero with respect to Lebesgue measure, so the function is not absolutely continuous.
See http://mathworld.wolfram.com/DevilsStaircase.html
Byron already answered your main question, but your last sentence is another matter. You want a BV function whose derivative is not integrable, but such things don't exist. In particular, if $f$ is monotone on $[a,b]$, then $f'$ exists a.e., is Lebesgue integrable, and $\int_a^b f' \leq f(b)-f(a)$. Thus half of the fundamental theorem of calculus holds, so to speak. General BV functions are differences of monotone functions, so their derivatives are also Lebesgue integrable.