Is there a single word meaning "convivial, jovial" but in a way which is not pleasant to others, obtrusively friendly?

Is there a single word with the meaning of convivial, jovial but in a way which is not pleasant to others? The important part of the meaning should also be obtrusively "friendly".

Like people who bother you with their conviviality, who keep offering you drinks to share their merriness, throw their stupid jokes on you constantly not seeing that they are the only ones who find them funny, slap you "friendly" on the back etc.

I want to emphasize rather the unpleasant bothering friendliness and conviviality, than the noise.

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/jovial:

jovial markedly good-humored especially as evidenced by cheerfulness and conviviality, jolly

a jovial host, a jovial welcome

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/convivial:

convivial relating to, occupied with, or fond of feasting, drinking, and good company

a convivial host, a convivial gathering

I do not mean malicious like in Word for someone who is jovial, but malicious?

A sample sentence would be something like

"I do not like him, he is such a xxx person"

I agree that "boisterous" first makes me think of the noise level.

Maybe "exuberant" or "overexuberant" would work?

MW definition of "exuberant" = "joyously unrestrained and enthusiastic"

Source:

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/exuberant

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/overexuberant

This sounds (to me) that the word focuses on the energy level/enthusiasm, and that it is a bit over the top but not necessarily interpreted as negative.

I think the term you are looking for is hail-fellow-well-met. It's somewhat old-fashioned, but not obsolete, and means pretty much exactly what you want. From MacMillan Dictionaries:

behaving in a very friendly way that is annoying or does not seem sincere

There's also an entry on the term in the blog associated with that dictionary, which goes into more detail about nuance.

A few examples:

Most courtesies are unpretentious and respectful of people of all stripes. A subset of courtesy is knowing the manner in which it's proffered. A "hail fellow well met" approach may well be very tasteless in another instance.
—Edward Atkins, On Which We Serve, 2011

UKIP’s leader, the boundlessly affable Nigel Farage, went to P. G. Wodehouse’s old high school, Dulwich College, and to a sneering metropolitan press, Farage’s party is a déclassé Wodehousean touring company mired in an elysian England that never was, populated only by golf-club duffers, halfwit toffs, rustic simpletons, and hail-fellow-well-met bores from the snug of the village pub.
—Mark Steyn, "UKIP Shakes Up Westminster", National Review, May 30, 2013

Cherabino and him got caught up in some kind of hail-fellow-well-met conversation, and I lost interest.
—Alex Hughes, Rabbit Trick, 2014 (excerpted on author's homepage)

Some caveats: Because this phrase is rather old-fashioned and not super common, it won't be understood by everyone—and it has always occasionally been used purely as a synonym for "loudly friendly" without the "annoyingly" rider—so depending on your audience, your criticism might not be fully appreciated.

Also, as the examples suggest, there's not full agreement on whether the phrase should be hyphenated or put in quotation marks. I'm fairly certain I've also seen examples that used both, and examples that used neither. Scare quotes might be good if you don't expect your audience to be familiar with the phrase; otherwise, I think the hyphenated version is most common.

With all that in mind, you could use the phrase something like this to convey your intention: