New ATV remote, how do you select things?

User guide is online if the included quick start docs don’t help you or aren’t around when you arrive at the kit.

  • https://support.apple.com/guide/tv/charge-the-siri-remote-atvb7d4de50d/tvos

Once you’re sure which generation remote you have from the photos above, here are navigation and selection details.

  • https://support.apple.com/guide/tv/navigate-apple-tv-atvbe55a4b4e/tvos

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