Nodemailer connection timeout error
Solution 1:
This may be firewall problem. I faced similar problem in Ubuntu (Digital Ocean server). Tried to fix the issue for 3 days, tried using auth2 also, tried with inactive firewall using ufw inactive command, but no luck. Finally I checked Digital Ocean admin panel and created firewall for the droplet. Problem solved by enabling TCP inbound and outbound in firewall settings.
Solution 2:
Have you looked at this answer.
It turns out that in order for Google to authorize a third party server to access your account via SMTP now, you have to enable “Less Secure Apps” on your gmail account, if you want to use username/password (more info here).
So you have two option:
use OAuth
make your account less secure