Ansible with_subelements

This is really bad example of how subelements lookup works. (And has old, unsupported, syntax as well).

Look at this one:

---
- hosts: localhost
  gather_facts: no
  vars:
    families:
      - surname: Smith
        children:
          - name: Mike
            age: 4
          - name: Kate
            age: 7
      - surname: Sanders
        children:
          - name: Pete
            age: 12
          - name: Sara
            age: 17

  tasks:
    - name: List children
      debug:
        msg: "Family={{ item.0.surname }} Child={{ item.1.name }} Age={{ item.1.age }}"
      with_subelements:
        - "{{ families }}"
        - children

Task List children is like a nested loop over families list (outer loop) and over children subelement in each family (inner loop).
So you should provide a list of dicts as first argument to subelements and name of subelement you want to iterate inside each outer item.

This way item.0 (family in my example) is an outer item and item.1 (child in my example) is an inner item.

In Ansible docs example subelements is used to loop over users (outer) and add several public keys (inner).