A question about SDE and geometric Brownian motion.
Solution 1:
Typically associativity of the integral is proved early on. If $X$ is a semimartingale and the integral $K \cdot X = \int K dX$ makes sense then the integral $(HK) \cdot X = \int HK dX$ makes sense if and only if the integral $H \cdot (K\cdot X) = \int H d(\int K dX)$ makes sense, in which case they are equal. In "differential form", this is $H\, d(K dX) = (HK) dX$. I am assuming you are already comfortable with linearity of stochastic integrals.
Thus taking $dN_t = N_t r dt + N_t\alpha dB_t$ and integrating $1/N_t$ with respect to the semimartingales defined by either side gives $$ (1/N_t) dN_t = (1/N_t) d(N_t r dt + N_t\alpha dB_t) = (1/N_t) d(N_t r dt)+ (1/N_t)d( N_t\alpha dB_t) = r dt + \alpha dB_t. $$
There is no need to use Ito here, it is simply associativity of the integral. The key idea is that we are not "dividing by $N_t$", instead we are integrating $1/N_t$ with respect to two (equal) semimartingales. In differential form, it just looks like dividing.
Solution 2:
I find notation such as $\frac{dN_t}{N_t}=rdt+\alpha dB_t$ incredibly unfortunate, it leads to the type of confusion you have encountered (and that I used to encounter myself).
That is why I advise against using short-hand notation (at least until one becomes very confident in stochastic calculus techniques).
In long-hand notation:
$$N_t=N_0+\int_{h=0}^{h=t}rN_hdh+\int_{h=0}^{h=t}\alpha N_hdB_h$$
From the above, it should be obvious that $N_h$ cannot be taken out of the integral and brought to the LHS (which is not obvious in the short-hand notation). Ito's Lemma needs to be used, applied to $ln(N_t)$ as you point out. Let $F(N_t,t):=ln(N_t)$, then taking the derivatives:
$$\frac{\partial F}{\partial N_t}=\frac{1}{N_t}, \frac{\partial^2 F}{\partial N_t^2}=\frac{-1}{N_t^2}, \frac{\partial F}{\partial t}=0$$
Then:
$$F_t=F(N_0)+\int_{h=0}^{h=t}\left(\frac{\partial F}{\partial h}+\frac{\partial F}{\partial N_h}rN_h+0.5\frac{\partial^2 F}{\partial N_h^2}\alpha^2 N_h^2\right)dh+\int_{h=0}^{h=t}\frac{\partial F}{\partial N_t}\alpha N_hdB_h=\\=ln(N_0)+\int_{h=0}^{h=t}\left(r-0.5\alpha^2 \right)dh+\int_{h=0}^{h=t}\alpha dB_h=\\=ln(N_0)+(r-0.5\alpha^2)t+\alpha B_t$$
Because $F_t=ln(N_t)$, the final answer is (by exponentiating both sides):
$$N_t=N_0e^{(r-0.5\alpha^2)t+\alpha B_t}$$