How to disable media sharing in Windows Media Player 12
From How To Disable Windows Media Player 12 Sharing :
- Go to Network and Sharing Center (found by clicking your wireless/Ethernet icon in your taskbar)
- Select Homegroup and Sharing Options
- Select Choose Media Streaming Options
- Click Block All
It's also possible to disable the media sharing from Services
- Click "Start" and select the "Control Panel."
- Go to "Administrative Tools" and open "Services."
- Find "Windows Media Player Network Sharing Service" and double-click on it.
- Click "Stop" under the "General" tab and then select "Ok.", or set the service to "Disabled".
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