Meaning of the expression-"You got me"
I was watching "Friends" the other day when this conversation popped up. I am a little bit confused with this expression-"You got me." What does it mean?
What does the speaker intend to say?
Phoebe : I can’t believe you--did this. So, what’s the deal with uh you and Joey?
Ursula : Oh, right. He is so great. But that’s over.
Phoebe : Does he know?
Ursula : Who?
Phoebe : Joey. You know, um, he’s really nutsy about you.
Ursula : He is? Why?
Phoebe : You got me.
I use this expression to say "I don't really know." Phoebe wants to say "I don't know why he's nutsy about you. You got me."
beware: in this instance "you got me" does not mean "you know what I mean".
Here it is a jocular way to say "I don't know the answer to that" -- as in: "you caught me out in a puzzle / riddle / contest of intellectual wit, by asking me a really difficult question."
The subtext here is that Phoebe is telling Ursula that she has no idea why Joey should find her attractive. It's Phoebe being catty.