Allow RDP for user from commandline

Sure, you can use the NET command:

NET LOCALGROUP "Remote Desktop Users" domain\jscott /ADD

This would add the domain user domian\jscott to the local group Remote Desktop Users. If you'd like to add a non-domain user, simply leave off the domain prefix:

NET LOCALGROUP "Remote Desktop Users" keyoke /ADD

This would add the local user keyoke to the local group Remote Desktop Users.