Genderless version of "Better man than I"
I (a woman) frequently find myself wanting to reply to a statement with the phrase "You're a better man than I."
If I say this to a man though, it sounds absurd, and to a woman, potentially insulting. Is there a genderless equivalent for this phrase? The obvious choice, "a better person than I", seems to have a quite different connotation.
E.g. someone says to me, "I always eat my vegetables, and run a marathon every Tuesday," to which I reply, "You're a __________________ than I, " or "You're more _____________ than I."
Solution 1:
You're a better mensch than I.
You're a better soul than I.
Alternatively:
You've got more _______ than I, for example
You've got more heart than I.
You've got more commitment than I.
You've got better discipline than I.
Solution 2:
In most cases, people are pretty comfortable accepting "man" as meaning "human". That particular phrase isn't likely to see much use in a formal setting either, so the subtleties of pronoun-based sexism aren't likely to come up through its appropriate use. Otherwise...
You're a better person than I.
Or
You're a better [genderless or appropriate title] than I. (Example: "You're a better vegetarian than I.")
In general conversation, person can stand in for man in almost all cases. It just sounds awkward when used in a title. (Example: Police-Person)
Solution 3:
This is a bit off the beaten path, but I'll try it because I think it would work well. It sidesteps the gender issues of man and the banality of person, while having a humorous aspect. How about creature?
You're a better creature than I.
From Merriam-Webster:
creature: an animal of any type
Try it, you might like it!