Solution 1:

Here is a crash course on the topology of $\mathcal{D}(\Omega)$.

Let $V$ be a vector space over $\mathbb{R}$. I will restrict to real scalars but one can also treat in the same way vector spaces over $\mathbb{C}$. $V$ is called a topological vector space if it is equipped with a topology $\mathscr{T}$ such that $+:V\times V\rightarrow V$ and $\cdot:\mathbb{R}\times V\rightarrow V$ are continuous. Here $V\times V$ is given the product topology coming from $\mathscr{T}$ for each factor. Likewise $\mathbb{R}\times V$ is given the product topology of the usual topology of $\mathbb{R}$ and the topology $\mathscr{T}$ on $V$.

A map $\rho:V\rightarrow \mathbb{R}$ is called a seminorm on $V$ iff it satisfies the three conditions:

  1. $\forall v\in V, \rho(v)\ge 0$
  2. $\forall v,w \in V, \rho(v+w)\le \rho(v)+\rho(w)$
  3. $\forall v\in V, \forall \lambda\in\mathbb{R}, \rho(\lambda v)=|\lambda|\rho(v)$

Let $s(V)$ denote the set of all seminorms on $V$. Given a subset $A$ of $s(V)$, one can define a topology $\mathscr{T}_A$ on $V$ as follows. First for $v\in V$, $r>0$ and $\rho\in A$, define the "open ball" $$ B(v,r,\rho)=\{w\in V\ |\ \rho(w-v)<r\}\ . $$ Now let $\mathscr{T}_A$ be the smallest topology on $V$ which contains the set of all such open balls (i.e., use the collection of these balls as a subbasis for defining a topology). This makes $V$ into a topological vector space (TVS) [Exercise 1: prove this]. A TVS which can be obtained in this way is called a locally convex TVS (LCTVS) [Remark 1: you don't have to prove this, it's a definition].

A seminorm $\eta$ on a LCTVS $V$ is called a continuous seminorm iff it is continuous in the usual sense, i.e., as a map between the topological spaces $V$ and $\mathbb{R}$. If $V$ is given as above, starting from a set of defining seminorms $A$, then the latter property is equivalent to $$ \exists k\ge 0, \exists \rho_1,\ldots,\rho_k\in A, \exists c_1,\ldots,c_k\ge 0, \forall v\in V, $$ $$ \eta(v)\le c_1\rho_1(v)+\cdots+c_k\rho_k(v)\ . $$ [Exercise 2: prove this equivalence]

Let $V_1,\ldots,V_n,W$ be LCTVS's. Let $\phi:V_1\times\cdots\times V_n\rightarrow W$ be an $n$-linear map. Give $V_1\times\cdots\times V_n$ the product topology. Then $\phi$ is a continuous map iff for all continuous seminorm $\eta$ on $W$, there exist continuous seminorms $\rho_1,\ldots,\rho_n$ on $V_1,\ldots,V_n$ respectively, such that $$ \forall v_1\in V_1,\ldots,\forall v_n\in V_n,\ \ \eta(\phi(v_1,\ldots,v_n))\le \rho_1(v_1)\cdots\rho_{n}(v_n)\ . $$ [Exercise 3: prove this last equivalence too]

Clearly, if the topology of $W$ is given as $\mathscr{T}_A$ for some $A\subset s(W)$, it is enough to check the last condition for $\eta$'s in $A$ only.

Example 1: Let $\Omega$ be a nonempty open subset of $\mathbb{R}^d$. Let $K$ be a compact subset of $\Omega$. Now take $V=\mathcal{D}_{K,\Omega}$, the space of $C^{\infty}$ functions $\Omega\rightarrow\mathbb{R}$ with support contained in $K$. Take $A=\{||\cdot||_N\ |\ N=1,2,3\ldots\}$ as in the question. Then $\mathscr{T}_A$ gives $\mathcal{D}_{K,\Omega}$ a LCTVS structure.

Example 2: Now take instead $V=\mathcal{D}(\Omega)$. Let $B\subset s(V)$ be the set of all seminorms $\rho$ on $\mathcal{D}(\Omega)$, such that for all compact $K\subset\Omega$, $\rho\circ \iota_{K,\Omega}:\mathcal{D}_{K,\Omega}\rightarrow\mathbb{R}$ is a continuous map. Here $\iota_{K,\Omega}$ is the inclusion map of $\mathcal{D}_{K,\Omega}$ into $\mathcal{D}(\Omega)$. Now equip $\mathcal{D}(\Omega)$ with the topology $\mathscr{T}_B$. This is the standard topology of $\mathcal{D}(\Omega)$.

Example 3: Again take $V=\mathcal{D}(\Omega)$. Let $\mathbb{N}=\{0,1,\ldots\}$, and denote the set of multiindices by $\mathbb{N}^d$. A locally finite family $\theta=(\theta_{\alpha})_{\alpha\in\mathbb{N}^d}$ of continous functions $\Omega\rightarrow \mathbb{R}$ is one such that for all $x\in\Omega$ there is a neighborhood $V\subset\Omega$, such that $V\cap {\rm Supp}\ \theta_{\alpha}=\varnothing$ for all but finitely many $\alpha$'s. For $f\in\mathcal{D}(\Omega)$, let $$ ||f||_{\theta}=\sup_{\alpha\in\mathbb{N}^d}\sup_{x\in\Omega} |\theta_{\alpha}(x)D^{\alpha}f(x)|\ . $$ Let $C$ be the set of seminorms $||\cdot||_{\theta}$ where $\theta$ runs over all such locally finite families. Then $\mathscr{T}_C$ is also the standard topology of $\mathcal{D}(\Omega)$. Namely, $\mathscr{T}_C=\mathscr{T}_B$, where $B$ is the set of seminorms from the previous example [Exercise 4: prove this equality].

Remark 2: One can prove the above equality of topologies by showing that the identity map is a homeomorphism from $\mathcal{D}(\Omega)$ with the topology $\mathscr{T}_B$ to $\mathcal{D}(\Omega)$ with the topology $\mathscr{T}_C$, using the above criterion of continuity for multilinear maps (for $n=1$).

And for some more practice, Exercise 5: Prove that pointwise multiplication is continuous from $\mathcal{D}(\Omega)\times \mathcal{D}(\Omega)$ with the product topology, to $\mathcal{D}(\Omega)$. For the solution of the last exercise see: https://mathoverflow.net/questions/234025/why-is-multiplication-on-the-space-of-smooth-functions-with-compact-support-cont/234503#234503

Solution 2:

Answer for 2): Let $N$ be any positive integer. Since $\phi$ is non-negative it follows that $\psi_m(N+\frac 1 2)\geq \frac 1 N \phi (N+\frac 1 2-N)=\frac 1 N \phi (\frac 12 )$ whenever $m \geq N$. If $\psi = \lim \psi_m $ we get $\psi (N+\frac 1 2) \geq \frac 1 N \phi (\frac 1 2) >0$ for all $N$ . Hence $\psi$ does not have compact support.