Postgres - aggregate two columns into one item

I would like to aggregate two columns into one "array" when grouping.

Assume a table like so:

friends_map:
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user_id    friend_id    confirmed
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1          2            true
1          3            false
2          1            true
2          3            true
1          4            false

I would like to select from this table and group by user_id and get friend_id and confirmed as a concatenated value separated by a comma.

Currently I have this:

SELECT user_id, array_agg(friend_id) as friends, array_agg(confirmed) as confirmed
FROM friend_map
WHERE user_id = 1
GROUP BY user_id

which gets me:

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user_id    friends      confirmed
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1         [2,3,4]       [t, f, f]

How can I get:

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user_id    friends     
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1         [ [2,t], [3,f], [4,f] ]

SELECT user_id, array_agg((friend_id, confirmed)) as friends
FROM friend_map
WHERE user_id = 1
GROUP BY user_id

user_id |           array_agg            
--------+--------------------------------
      1 | {"(2,true)","(3,false)","(4,false)"}

You could avoid the ugliness of the multidimentional array and use some json which supports mixed datatypes:

SELECT user_id, json_agg(json_build_array(friend_id, confirmed)) AS friends 
    FROM friends_map 
    WHERE user_id = 1
    GROUP BY user_id

Or use some key : value pairs since json allows that, so your output will be more semantic if you like:

SELECT user_id, json_agg(json_build_object(
        'friend_id', friend_id, 
        'confirmed', confirmed
    )) AS friends 
    FROM friends_map 
    WHERE user_id = 1
    GROUP BY user_id;

You can concatenate the values together prior to feeding them into the array_agg() function:

SELECT user_id, array_agg('[' || friend_id || ',' || confirmed || ']') as friends
FROM friends_map
WHERE user_id = 1
GROUP BY user_id

Demo: SQL Fiddle