A good word for the opposite of pretentious?
Solution 1:
Will unpretentious work?
Not attempting to impress others with an appearance of greater importance, talent, or culture than is actually possessed: a friendly and unpretentious hotel
in spite of his fame he was thoroughly unpretentious
1.1(Of a place) pleasantly simple and functional; modest.
(Oxford Dictionaries Online)
Solution 2:
down-to-earth, defined by Merriam-Webster
informal and easy to talk to
practical and sensible
unpretentious -- Example: surprised to find the movie star so down–to–earth
Solution 3:
Genuine (M-W) is mentioned by the OP, but there is an alternate definition which makes it more appropriate than other dismissed terms:
free from hypocrisy or pretense
Solution 4:
unaffected (dictionary.com) -
1. free from affectation; sincere; genuine:
The man showed unaffected grief at the death of his former opponent.
2. unpretentious, as a personality or literary style.
Solution 5:
Modest — M-W
Unassuming in the estimation of one’s abilities or achievements
"Despite the magnitude of her work, I find Kate surprisingly down to earth and genuinely modest about the achievements she will leave behind when she hands over the reins on her 65th birthday."