why do I have to double tap command + space to open spotlight?

I had the same problem. Apparently, Siri is waiting to see if it's being called. In the Siri preferences, there's a setting for Keyboard Shortcut which is set to Hold Command Space by default. So sometimes you might be pressing a little longer but not long enough for Siri to kick in.

Change this setting to Press Fn (Function) Space as shown in the screenshot.

Change Siri Keyboard Shortcut


Look in SystemPreferences->Keyboard->Shortcut select Spotlight (while Textedit open) if there is a message that CMD+Space is "used by another app".