“other’s lives” vs. “others’ lives”

Solution 1:

Since you are talking about multiple others ("...the lives of others"), then the apostrophe comes after the s.

having an impact on others' lives

Solution 2:

If something is singular, for example, Bob. Then he is a person and we write

Bob's book.

Let us consider there are two Bobs and both of them share a single book.

The two Bobs' book

so others is plural. Consequently, the correct answer is

having an impact on others’ lives.