Get the generated SQL statement from a SqlCommand object?

For logging purposes, I'm afraid there's no nicer way of doing this but to construct the string yourself:

string query = cmd.CommandText;

foreach (SqlParameter p in cmd.Parameters)
{
    query = query.Replace(p.ParameterName, p.Value.ToString());
}

Whilst not perfect, here's something I knocked up for TSQL - could be easily tweaked for other flavors... If nothing else it will give you a start point for your own improvements :)

This does an OK job on data types and output parameters etc similar to using "execute stored procedure" in SSMS. We mostly used SPs so the "text" command doesn't account for parameters etc

    public static String ParameterValueForSQL(this SqlParameter sp)
    {
        String retval = "";

        switch (sp.SqlDbType)
        {
            case SqlDbType.Char:
            case SqlDbType.NChar:
            case SqlDbType.NText:
            case SqlDbType.NVarChar:
            case SqlDbType.Text:
            case SqlDbType.Time:
            case SqlDbType.VarChar:
            case SqlDbType.Xml:
            case SqlDbType.Date:
            case SqlDbType.DateTime:
            case SqlDbType.DateTime2:
            case SqlDbType.DateTimeOffset:
                retval = "'" + sp.Value.ToString().Replace("'", "''") + "'";
                break;

            case SqlDbType.Bit:
                retval = (sp.Value.ToBooleanOrDefault(false)) ? "1" : "0";
                break;

            default:
                retval = sp.Value.ToString().Replace("'", "''");
                break;
        }

        return retval;
    }

    public static String CommandAsSql(this SqlCommand sc)
    {
        StringBuilder sql = new StringBuilder();
        Boolean FirstParam = true;

        sql.AppendLine("use " + sc.Connection.Database + ";");
        switch (sc.CommandType)
        {
            case CommandType.StoredProcedure:
                sql.AppendLine("declare @return_value int;");

                foreach (SqlParameter sp in sc.Parameters)
                {
                    if ((sp.Direction == ParameterDirection.InputOutput) || (sp.Direction == ParameterDirection.Output))
                    {
                        sql.Append("declare " + sp.ParameterName + "\t" + sp.SqlDbType.ToString() + "\t= ");

                        sql.AppendLine(((sp.Direction == ParameterDirection.Output) ? "null" : sp.ParameterValueForSQL()) + ";");

                    }
                }

                sql.AppendLine("exec [" + sc.CommandText + "]");

                foreach (SqlParameter sp in sc.Parameters)
                {
                    if (sp.Direction != ParameterDirection.ReturnValue)
                    {
                        sql.Append((FirstParam) ? "\t" : "\t, ");

                        if (FirstParam) FirstParam = false;

                        if (sp.Direction == ParameterDirection.Input)
                            sql.AppendLine(sp.ParameterName + " = " + sp.ParameterValueForSQL());
                        else

                            sql.AppendLine(sp.ParameterName + " = " + sp.ParameterName + " output");
                    }
                }
                sql.AppendLine(";");

                sql.AppendLine("select 'Return Value' = convert(varchar, @return_value);");

                foreach (SqlParameter sp in sc.Parameters)
                {
                    if ((sp.Direction == ParameterDirection.InputOutput) || (sp.Direction == ParameterDirection.Output))
                    {
                        sql.AppendLine("select '" + sp.ParameterName + "' = convert(varchar, " + sp.ParameterName + ");");
                    }
                }
                break;
            case CommandType.Text:
                sql.AppendLine(sc.CommandText);
                break;
        }

        return sql.ToString();
    }

this generates output along these lines...

use dbMyDatabase;
declare @return_value int;
declare @OutTotalRows   BigInt  = null;
exec [spMyStoredProc]
    @InEmployeeID = 1000686
    , @InPageSize = 20
    , @InPage = 1
    , @OutTotalRows = @OutTotalRows output
;
select 'Return Value' = convert(varchar, @return_value);
select '@OutTotalRows' = convert(varchar, @OutTotalRows);