Alternative to Daemontools (djbtools) to supervise unix processes?
Solution 1:
Hrm, if you're using Ubuntu, their new init process, upstart, includes a level of process supervision. It can be used for your standard starting and stopping of services, a la SysV init scripts, and it can also monitor running applications and respawn them if they die.
You can also implement a poor man's process restarter via inittab, depending on what your needs are.
If you're primarily looking for something to keep an eye on a process, to make sure it's always running, and then restart it when it isn't, I've had great luck with restartd. Unfortunately, the only source for it that I know of is the Debian package. However, it's a very small and simple application, basically just a single .c and .h file, with a make file. Compiling it from the Debian source tarball on Red Hat is trivial (I even made an RPM of it at my previous job).
A final option I've heard of, but not used, is Supervisor. It looks like a promising tool, but restartd has worked well enough for me in the past, for what I needed, that I haven't yet bothered to play with it.
Solution 2:
+1 for runit. More features and flexible than daemontools, compatible with existing daemontools arguments and options. Pretty neat.
But as you mentioned a lot of tools come with their own control binaries, apache2ctl, ejabberdctl, poundctl, collectd, etc. And although hacks exist, sometimes its just better to stick to the supplied tools, mostly when you are not sure of the cleanest possible implementation. I usually do a compromise, and have most of the services run under runit's supervision. And the others can be allowed to run using the trivial way.